‘Agni’ or sacred fire is lit on the altar. The lively ambience somehow amplifies the silent significant of the dancing flame. Just as in many traditional Indian ceremonies, the element of fire is of utmost importance. It’s the pathway to righteousness, spiritual fulfillment and shared harmony. The series of rituals an Indian wedding is so known for, promises an intriguing experience.

Visitors to a traditional Indian wedding will be greeted by festoons of fresh mango leaves, ‘koolam’ ~ large floor pattern made of coloured rice grains to decorate the entrance of the wedding hall and bridal home, and mesmerizing beats of ‘Nadeswaram’ drums. Offerings of flowers, sandal batter and sugar candies are common gifts for guests at the wedding.

Upon days of prior agreements and processions between the families of the bride and groom, the couple is now ready to live life as one. Sitting pretty at the ‘mandapa’ ~ the wedding canopy, they’re treated to a string of ‘poojas’ (prayers) to ensure matrimonial happiness, harmony and peace, before the highlight of the vent ~ tying the knot. The knot is ‘ Mangal Sutra’ ~ wedding necklace of gold and onyx. Blessing by family, friends and the priest concludes the ceremony, amidst showers of flower petals and tumeric-coated rice grains. The red ‘tilaka’ marking on the bride’s forehead is more than just a just married symbol. It is a testament of pure devotion to the family and the generations to come.