Preparation leading to a traditional Chinese wedding makes a fascinating observation. Firstly, there’s the proposal, usually the responsibility of a ‘buffer’ acting on behalf of the bride and the groom’s families. Upon exchanging gifts, formalities and determining auspicious dates, comes the betrothal.

This final pre-wedding meet bears witness to even more exchange of gifts, collectively known as ‘Cha-li’ or tea presents ~ offerings of bridal cakes, sweetmeats, wine, tobacco or money. Essentially, by accepting the gifts, the girl’s family pledges her to the boy’s. A tea-pouring ceremony where the family elders are honoured, caps the evening.

Rich reds and rosy pinks are mandatory in traditional Chinese weddings. You’ll find them throughout wedding decorations, up to the attire worn by the bride and groom. Red signifies among other things, happiness, prosperity and abundance. Equally important is the ‘Double Happiness’ character, or ‘Hsi’.

Surprisingly enough, the actual wedding is a relatively uncomplicated affair. The most interesting though is the hair dressing ritual of the bride. The bride’s hair is combed by her mother, with each gentile stroke symbolizing longevity, prosperity, happiness and harmony. Though the customs and rituals are as varied as China is vast, one thing remains true; amidst the din of blasting fireworks and bursts of laughter drawing till late into the night, life has just taken a whole new meaning for tow souls in love.